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This blog post was written by Recovery Help Now’s Vanessa Blaxland, MFTi. Sexual infidelity is clear.  You know that sexual infidelity consists of a partner ignoring the boundaries of an intimate relationship and has some kind of physical sexual contact with another person.  However, emotional infidelity on the other hand is much like Internet infidelity, [...]

This blog post was written by Recovery Help Now’s Vanessa Blaxland, MFTi. Infidelities cause major ruptures in relationships.  Many times you hear about the impact an infidelity can have on the partner who was cheated on and how they can push through and support themselves through these difficult times.  Other times, you hear about how [...]

This blog post was written by Recovery Help Now’s Vanessa Blaxland, MFTi. Over the past decade, fast changing technology has brought a new dynamic to relationships.  While our society tends to have rather clear ideas of infidelity in the real world, such as infidelity requires a physical act, cyberspace has presented relationships with a new [...]

This blog post was written by Recovery Help Now’s, Cindy Nigro, MFTi. How do you carry on after infidelity has been discovered in your relationship?  Are you feeling numb one moment, angry another and experiencing a roller coaster of emotions?   Surviving infidelity is never easy but I can say that there are general patterns that [...]

This blog entry was written by guest blogger, Roger Schwarz, MFT, JD. He specializes in couples and family counseling and psychotherapy. He combines years of training and experience as a therapist with the wisdom cultivated through a previous career as a lawyer/CPA. His approach is to facilitate change by complementing the insights the client already has [...]

This blog post was written by Recovery Help Now’s Cindy Nigro, MFTi. Do you and your partner argue about finances?  Do you ever fantasize that if your partner was wealthy and things would be so much easier?  It’s common to think like that, and don’t get me wrong, there’s no doubt money can make life [...]

This blog post was written by Recovery Help Now’s, Vanessa Blaxland, MFTi. It’s not hard to see that more than ever more women are obtaining more masters, doctorates, and high-ranking positions.  With more young women seeking higher education than their male counterparts according the U.S. Department of Education, they now face a vastly different dating [...]

This blog post was written by Recovery Help Now’s, Vanessa Blaxland, MFTi. Does money make you sexier?  Well, when you think about guys like Donald Trump and how he gets all those gorgeous women, you can’t help but think it’s got to be his bank account…  You might be onto something.  According to a survey [...]

This blog post was written by Recovery Help Now’s, Cindy Nigro, MFTi. Chronic unemployment is putting many couples’ marital vows to the test — particularly the part that refers to “for richer, for poorer.”  With far less money coming in each month, many families have been forced to cut back, borrow money from family and [...]

When I was growing up, men worked and women stayed home with the children.  My mother was an excellent seamstress.  She spent most of her time gardening, cooking, cleaning, and carpooling children.  My father focused on work, keeping the grass cut, being handy, and he controlled the money.  There was no need for my mother [...]